How to Bid Low without Offending the Seller
Today’s market has brought about the illusion that buyers hold all the cards and can offer whatever they “feel” is a good price for a house and that every seller should appreciate whatever they can get and be happy someone wants to buy their house. To all the buyers out there, “Control yourselves! Your ego may just possibly force you to lose a great new home for your family. You are not ‘king of the hill!” To all the sellers, “Hire a professional realtor who knows how to sell a house, listen to your realtor -it’s what they do for a living, and for the love of “Pete”-do not take offensive offers personally!”
With the market having such high inventory and either stagnant or declining prices, buyers are making ridiculously low offers to the point that it offends the seller so much that the seller won’t even counter on principle alone or they counter back at full price. I’ve seen it over and over again and whether you agree with it or not, it is a FACT. Some sellers get so ticked off that they refuse to even sell the house to the inquiring buyer at all. Again, this is not made up material for a good article, it is really happening!
First and foremost, when looking for your next home, you should hire a professional realtor. There are several benefits in it for you, and you don’t pay the realtor. We are in the business of managing the biggest asset that most people own on a day to day basis. We are experts in negotiations, real estate laws and the transaction process which could quickly turn sour if you don’t have someone looking out for your best interests and who knows which questions to ask and what to watch out for. If you don’t have one yet, call me!
Determine the seller’s motivation. As a realtor, I know how to expertly get this information with stealth like precision. As a third party who is not emotionally involved, I can see things clearer. And, I will ask the seller’s realtor a myriad of questions and then listen closely for clues to their individual situation. Such as ….the seller has already purchased another home, the house has been on the market over the average days on market for the neighborhood, their relocating to another state…..etc.. All of these things are key factors to their level of motivation to sell.
Explain your offer. I have often included a cover letter explaining my reason and/or my client’s reason for coming up with that number. Sometimes, having the buyer actually write a letter to the seller making their point is a positive step. They can express their interest in the home, the positive aspects that make them want to make it their home and also their concerns about the market conditions and dropping values… I recently made an offer on a house that was in an estate sale and needed a ton of improvements. I wrote the letter to the listing agent about how our intention was to fix it up and sell it right away. With that said, the only way we could possibly buy the house after calculating the estimated costs of improvement, would be to get it at XYZ price and that we had no intention of offending the owner’s family….but if they wanted to get rid of it immediately, we could pay cash and close in 2 weeks. It worked.
Prepare yourself for rejection or heavy negotiating. This is where your realtor can offer a TON of value to you. We can negotiate hard enough to get the very best price the seller will offer, but not so much that we will tick the seller off. I always try to verbally discuss the offer price and situation with the seller’s realtor. I guess it’s that “good ‘ol boy” philosophy of doing business with a handshake. I have had positive results when the other realtor and I can talk through an offer before getting it finalized on paper. It keeps it personal and there are certain things you just can’t convey on a piece of paper, such as the client’s good intentions and genuine nature.
“Believe there is a great power silently working all things for good, behave yourself and never mind the rest.” -Beatrix Potter







